influence people

influence.. sumone gave me this word and i failed to explain it. it is hard to explain in words because it does not have right or wrong explanation for this. but, i can share a little knowledge that i know about influencing people.

- approachable.

this will makes people easy to share or ask sumthing from u. this shows people trust and ur job to influence become easier.

- timing.

do not talk too long or too short. make sure ur words r arrange properly and ur point r reachable for others. most effective time is first 30 seconds. if this went smoothly, u can go on along way of the conversation and.. at last influence that person.

- environment.

u have to make sure ur surrounding and the person's condition b4 u trying to approach and influence them. this time, u need to be able to judge people and find the best way to start the conversation. if they look comfortable with u, then only u can make ur words...

- topic.

ur topic must be suitable for ur conversation. if ur point is to influence that person to buy ur goods, just talk about the goods and manipulate a little about the goods. make ur goods is the best thing in the world. but, if ur point is to influence them and let them listen 2 u, just express the things that they want to listen, bcoz they maybe not interested in other things. influence will indirectly given by u through ur nice words.

-confidence.

ur confidence level is judged by others when u r start talking. make sure to look charming and confident but do not, i repeat do not hesitate. if u r not sure about the things u said, just defend ur point as good as u can be. but, if ur point is totally wrong, do not mention it, just said u r not really sure. once again control ur confidence level. don over confident because people doesn't like it,, and influence job will not going so well. if ur lack of confident, ur percentage to influence people is lesser, worse none.

- attitude.

this is the most important point. ur attitude and personality will help u go through the whole process. the better ur personality, the easier to influence them. leave them to make they own decision. don be to harsh and pushy when ur point is rejected or ignored. later, u will know whether u r successful or failed to influence that person..

i think, that's it from me. u r freely reject or accept or agree or disagree with my points above. its just my opinion and any corrections and suggestions are recommended. :)